Queens discussion group for autistic (and autistic-like1) adults
The meetings listed below are online chat meetings (text-based). To view the meeting details (including a link to our chatroom), you must first join our Meetup.com group (and be logged in to Meetup.com) if you have not done so already.
- Tuesday, April 13, at 7:00 PM: Topic-focussed discussion on active listening. (See meeting details, find chatroom link, and RSVP here.)
- Tuesday, May 4, at 7:00 PM: General support group meeting. (See meeting details, find chatroom link, and RSVP here.)
- Tuesday, May 11, at 7:00 PM: Topic-focussed discussion on responding gracefully to criticism. (See meeting details, find chatroom link, and RSVP here.)
If you are planning to attend any of these chat meetings, please RSVP on the relevant Meetup.com page.
About the Queens discussion group
The Queens discussion group is a peer-led support / self-help group for adults (18+) either officially diagnosed or self-diagnosed with an autism spectrum condition, or who have difficulties similar to those of autistic people (e.g. difficulties with social communication, sensory processing, and/or executive function). The group also has some other, more specific aims, beyond just general support. And we hope to spawn various other kinds of groups including groups of people with particular categories of occupations / jobs / career goals and groups of people with particular hobbies.
Because we can't hold in-person meetings now due to the CoViD-19 crisis, we are now holding online chat meetings. For now we are using a Zulip chat site, Hopefully at some point we will be able to develop our own, simpler chatroom.
Please RSVP by no later than the morning of the meeting date. Earlier RSVP's are appreciated if possible. (When we were meeting at a diner, we needed people to RSVP so that we could know how big a table to reserve. Wnile we are now meeting in chat, RSVP's are still helpful so the facilitator(s) can be better prepared.) Please RSVP via our Meetup group, or via the contact info here, or via my private email address if you know it.
Both on Meetup and in our chatroom, if you aren't totally out of the closet about ASD with everyone in your life including any and all conceivable future potential employers, landlords, co-op boards, etc., it is recommended that you protect your privacy by NOT using your legal name. Instead, feel free to use either (1) your first name and last initial or (2) a pseudonym (e.g. your handle on Wrong Planet or AutismForums if you post there). Please note that both our chatroom and our Meetup site are already private in the sense that your identity is hidden from Google Search. Nevertheless, because anyone can join, it is recommended that you take additional measures to protect your privacy. (But do NOT impersonate anyone else.) Please see Warnings about online harassment for more info about the potential dangers.
Our group is currently facilitated by this website's author (autobiography here), who has had experience leading various kinds of groups in various oddball subcultures. Eventually we hope to train other regularly-attending members to be facilitators too and rotate leadership, thereby also enabling the group to split easily into smaller groups if/when it gets too big, or if/when incompatible meeting-style preferences emerge.
Please familiarize yourself with the typical structure of our meetings. Meeting topics will usually be announced on our Meetup site and in reminder emails, with details about some of our discussion topics on the Autistic NYC blog.
Please also familiarize yourself with our rules and guidelines.
Before the CoViD19 crisis, we were meeting on the first Wednesday of each month at the Atlantic Diner, accessible via the A train, the J train, and the E/F trains plus the Q37 bus. (Location and detailed directions here). It also has a parking lot. If that diner doesn't go out of business completely due to being closed under lockdown, we'll be meeting there again when it reopens.
"Autistic-like" is not a clinically-defined term. Anyone who feels that they face the same problems as autistic people can identify as "Autistic-like," similar to the term "cousin" as used by the first autistic adult organization, the Autism Network International. (See Autism Network International -- The Development of a Community and Its Culture by Jim Sinclair, 2005. See also Reviving the concept of cousins by Mel Baggs, 2016.)
Queens discussion group: Autistic adult peer support and self-help group that currently meets in online chat (text-based) and will eventually meet in-person again after the COVID crisis.
Where to get an ASD evaluation as an adult: This page will be expanded and updated sometime after the COVID crisis is over with.